Last Week I…

21 Aug

…went to the cinema for the first time in weeks and weeks.  I thought Brave was delightful – have you seen it?  I now want spiralling, flaming red hair, like, badly.

…finished reading The Red House by Mark Haddon (as I’ve found myself saying repeatedly over the past few weeks, “he’s the guy that wrote “The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night Time””) for book group, went to book group and spent the whole time gossiping about boys instead.  The book was still worth reading though.

…cycled from Edinburgh to North Berwick with my friend on a sunny Sunday.  There were scones, a picnic and only one wrong turn!

…went to a barbecue.

…ate lots of veggie lasagne.

…met up with various friends for various activities, mostly revolving around eating, drinking and watching Fringe shows.

…slept until lunchtime on Saturday, sat around drinking coffee until mid-afternoon on Saturday and then felt incredibly guilty at my slothful behaviour and went to the gym.

Finally, last week I really enjoyed and related to this post about blogging, which got me thinking.  My relationship with my blog, rather like my relationship with myself, has changed a lot over the past few months.  I write less these days, there’s no denying it.  But instead of writing about things I want to do, I’m finding myself actually doing more of those things, which I can in no way see as a bad thing.  I also haven’t looked at a single statistic, traffic source or subscription tally for MONTHS – I can’t even remember how to get into Google Analytics!  But you know what?  I’m a thousand times the more contented blogger for that.  In fact, this is the way it should have been for me all along.

If I could have a busy, interesting blog and a busy, interesting life at the same time I totally would.  Some bloggers manage that – how I don’t know, but they do – and they are only to be applauded.  I, however, am but a mere mortal with a full time job and a career trajectory to ponder, an addiction to crochet and twelve thousand to-do/see/read/experience-in-some-way-before-I-die lists.  And as much as it does sadden me to watch my blog being strapped into the back seat, in the contest between the two, the busy, interesting life and the twelve thousand lists completely win out.  If someone asks me to go and do something fun with them, I’ll happily postpone writing a blog post for it.  Happily.  Which does not for a second mean that I don’t care if anyone is reading this.  If you are reading this, let me say that I am DELIGHTED that you’re here.   And please do stay a while if you feel inclined.  And please have some tea.

Anyway, enough of that deep and meaningful nonsense.  What did you do last week?

Image above from here.

  • Elise

    Excellent point made about blogging, I’ve been doing the same thing lately and its totally not worth stressing over, I’m not trying to be one of those huge bloggers anyway… loved her hair in Brave too! Made up for the so-so storyline…:)

  • http://dichohecho.tumblr.com/ Sarah

    I’d not seen that post but I can definitely identify with it, thanks for linking to it :) I have a strange sort of relationship with blogging, I’m sure lots of people do, I think the best thing we can do is to not let the blog take over and keep it personal. I see lots of people asking readers what they want to see in a blog but I find that strange. My blog isn’t for everyone and I don’t expect it to please a lot of people because trying to play to every demographic would make it less mine.

  • http://dichohecho.tumblr.com/ Sarah

    ( I’m mostly referring to 52weeksof.blogspot.com but my Disqus points to Tumblr because that’s what I set it up for )

  • http://www.sarahrooftops.co.uk Sarah Rooftops

    I’m so impatient to see Brave! Hopefully, I’ll manage next week…

     I hadn’t seen that post but it’s an interesting one. There’s definitely a shift in blogs at the moment, and I’m quite conscious of doing a balancing act between writing something I’m proud of (because writing matters to me) and getting sucked into stilted writing-for-advertisers territory (not that I have any). But real life is definitely more important – some of it needs to be kept offline and none of it should ever be cancelled for blogging. Thanks for sharing. :)